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It’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.<\/strong>–Alfred Lord Tennyson<\/p>\n

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They say loving you gives pains and full of sacrifices. But I’ll rather take pains and lots of sacrifices than not to be loved by you.<\/strong>-Aaron<\/p>\n

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