{"id":2820,"date":"2012-04-29T08:47:56","date_gmt":"2012-04-29T00:47:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fc.ktchiu.com\/?p=2820"},"modified":"2012-04-29T08:47:56","modified_gmt":"2012-04-29T00:47:56","slug":"%e8%8b%b1%e6%96%87%e9%96%b1%e8%ae%80%e7%ad%86%e8%a8%981%ef%bc%9awhy-its-lonely-at-the-top","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fc.iwant-in.net\/?p=2820","title":{"rendered":"\u82f1\u6587\u95b1\u8b80\u7b46\u8a181\uff1aWhy It\u2019s Lonely at the Top"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u53c8\u958b\u59cb\u903c\u81ea\u5df1\u591a\u5c11\u8b80\u4e9b\u82f1\u6587\u6587\u7ae0\uff0c\u6458\u9304\u90e8\u5206\u55ae\u5b57\u3001\u7528\u8a9e\uff0c\u4e3b\u8981\u70ba\u4e86\u81ea\u5df1\u4fdd\u5b58\uff0c\u9806\u5e36\u5206\u4eab\u3002\u672c\u7bc7\u8b1b\u8ff0\u6b0a\u529b\u70ba\u4f55\u4f7f\u4eba\u61f7\u7591\u4ed6\u4eba\u3001\u7834\u58de\u89aa\u5bc6\u3002<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>covet\u5782\u6d8e\u3001\u5984\u60f3<\/p>\n<p>pervert\u6b6a\u66f2<\/p>\n<p>contort\u626d\u66f2<\/p>\n<p>undermine\u6697\u6697\u7834\u58de<\/p>\n<p>nurture\u6ecb\u990a\u3001\u990a\u80b2<\/p>\n<p>implication\u610f\u6db5\u3001\u6697\u793a<\/p>\n<p>portend\u9810\u77e5\u3001\u7576\u6210\u5fb5\u5146<\/p>\n<p>see others through a beneficent lens\u4ee5\u5584\u826f\u3001\u597d\u5fc3\u7684\u89d2\u5ea6\u89e3\u8b80\u5225\u4eba\u6240\u4f5c\u6240\u70ba<\/p>\n<p>opportunist\u6a5f\u6703\u4e3b\u7fa9\u8005<\/p>\n<p>altruistic reasons\u5229\u4ed6\u7684\u539f\u56e0<\/p>\n<p>jaundiced view of other\u2019s intention\u5c0d\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u52d5\u6a5f\u61f7\u6709\u504f\u898b<\/p>\n<p>sycophant\u963f\u8adb\u5949\u627f\uff08\u8005\uff09<\/p>\n<p>sycophantic\u963f\u8adb\u5949\u627f\u7684<\/p>\n<p>over-apply one\u2019s principle\u628a\u67d0\u4eba\u539f\u5247\u904e\u4efd\u5957\u7528<\/p>\n<p>irrespective of the source\u4e0d\u7ba1\u4f86\u6e90\u3001\u51fa\u8655<\/p>\n<p>conniving intention\u6697\u4e2d\u6709\u6240\u5716\u8b00\u7684\u610f\u5716<\/p>\n<p>reciprocate\u4ea4\u63db\u3001\u56de\u5831<\/p>\n<p>reciprocity\u76f8\u4e92\u3001\u4e92\u60e0<\/p>\n<p>the social norm\u793e\u6703\u57fa\u6e96<\/p>\n<p>a key component of relationship\u95dc\u4fc2\u7684\u95dc\u9375\u7d44\u6210<\/p>\n<p>social equilibrium and cohesion\u793e\u6703\u5747\u8861\u548c\u51dd\u805a<\/p>\n<p>ulterior motive\u96b1\u85cf\u7684\u52d5\u6a5f<\/p>\n<p>suspect motive\u53ef\u7591\u7684\u52d5\u6a5f<\/p>\n<p>hierarchical position\u968e\u5c64\u7d44\u7e54\u88e1\u7684\u4f4d\u7f6e<\/p>\n<p>affect one\u2019s response\u5f71\u97ff\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u7684\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>emerge\u5f62\u6210\u3001\u986f\u73fe<\/p>\n<p>be less likely to\u8f03\u4e0d\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\uff08\u505a\u67d0\u4e8b\uff09<\/p>\n<p>cynical attributions that power inspires\uff08\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u88ab\uff09\u6b0a\u529b\u5f15\u767c\u7684\u8af7\u523a\u7fd2\u6027<\/p>\n<p>interpersonal trust\u4eba\u8207\u4eba\u4e4b\u9593\u7684\u4fe1\u4efb<\/p>\n<p>Trust doesn\u2019t just happen though; 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